Hello Friends,
Growing up starts slowly at first, then appears to accelerate. Your small child walking into her first day of kindergarten—seemingly just last week—is now progressing swiftly through her senior year of high school. But don't panic. Relax, breathe deeply, and for good advice read our February feature article: "Thoughts on Preparing to Launch Your Teen" .
As winter weather stretches on, we have more great ideas for making plans for the season in our bonus article: "Here I Am, Stuck In the Winter With You - 2." Before you know it, sunshine and warmth will return!
As always, please remember that whatever your educational needs, Foundation for Learning is ready to assist you with caring, one-on-one, individualized tutoring, and ISEE/SSAT test prep.
Don't hesitate to give us a call at 973-425-1774 or send an email to betty.foundationforlearning@gmail.com for a free consultation.
Best regards,
Betty
February 2018 Test Schedule
Mark your calendar for the latest test dates.
Thoughts on Preparing to Launch Your Teen
One would think that with the end of senior year in sight, fun end-of-year activities being planned, and the excitement about going off to college becoming more of a reality, life with your teen would be relaxing and fun! However, what is likely happening in your household is that conversations are becoming harder, emotions are running high, small behavior changes are occurring, your teen is more sullen and is pulling away from both parents and siblings. She may not want to spend time with you or participate in family activities. Don’t despair. This is completely natural and an important phase. This emotional separation allows her to be better prepared to leave home, head to college, and become a well-adjusted adult. Know that deep down she still loves her family, and that she is excited about heading off on her own, but she may also be feeling anxious about leaving home and the journey ahead. By pulling away a bit now while she still has home as a safety net, it becomes easier for her to leave when the time comes. The hardest thing for you to do right now, aside from not losing your cool, is to not take it personally.
Here are some thoughts that might make your life a little easier over the coming months:
1. Remember that you are still the parent. Be a welcoming, compassionate role model and mentor. It’s not your job to be her friend, she needs a family leader she can turn to.
2. Listen more and talk less. You have so much you want to teach her and tell her before she leave the nest, but it’s really important that your teen knows that you will listen, that you are safe and that you are available. By listening without interrupting, you’ll gain a chance to really hear what is on her mind and will have a window into what her fears, strengths and weaknesses are. Then you’ll be in a good position to help her and more importantly, she’ll know that she can turn to you when she needs to, even when she's away from home.
3. Remain calm. The times they are a’changing and if you’re too stressed to deal with whatever the current crisis is, then you won’t be able to respond rationally.
4. Let her make mistakes. This is often a challenge, but at this age your teen needs more privacy and autonomy. She needs to make mistakes so she can learn from them. That’s an important key to learning and to using good judgment.
5. Be a good role model. Hopefully you’ve been doing this all along. Don’t stop now. Your teen is watching you so set a good example. And be real! Let her see that you don’t always know best, that you make mistakes, that you get confused and that you apologize when you are wrong. It’s important to let her see that you’re not perfect and that she doesn’t have to be either. We’re all just works in progress.
6. Schedule family time. Whether it’s a meal out, a day-trip, a hike, whatever it is that your family normally enjoys, make it so. Relaxing time together is precious and will go a long way towards keeping everyone connected. Oh, and no screens!
7. Talk to your teen about risks and give her a game plan. Again, you’ve hopefully been doing this all along but now is a good time to reinforce these subjects. Have the talks about drugs, and drinking and driving. Your teen needs to be prepared for the big wide world and you need to express your expectations as well as helping her to come up with options to deal with these situations. Brainstorm with her. One of the best times to talk is when you’re alone in the car together. Somehow, sitting next to each other but looking straight ahead while taking in the passing scene, is one of the easiest ways to have these conversations, with none of the usual distractions you face at home. Rest assured that even if your teen isn’t the most responsive, she’s still listening.
Tuck these ideas in your head, jot them in your diary, update your to-do list and get them done over the next few months, but above all – relax! You’ve got a lot of exciting times ahead so enjoy this precious time with your teen!
Here I Am, Stuck In the Winter With You - 2
The following is a continuation of last month's bonus article. Still wondering what to do when you're stuck inside this winter? Here are more great ideas to get you unstuck.
Enjoy the ultimate comfort meal
Why, it’s grilled cheese and tomato soup, of course!
Organize a video game marathon
Video game Olympics – family style! Players and observers alike will have the best time. Just make sure to include everyone in the fun.
Bake something
Warm chocolate chip cookies – need I say more?
Popcorn and movie night
Just pop up those kernels (maybe search the web for great flavorings to add to your treat) and get comfy with your family and enjoy your favorite movies – or catch up on some you’ve missed in the theater
Exercise that brain
Sudoku, crosswords, jigsaw puzzles, so many ways to relax while giving your brain a good workout.
Board games
Break out the Monopoly, chess, Scrabble, Settlers of Catan or any of the other fun board games you have on hand. Clear off the kitchen table and game day begins!
Try yoga
There are plenty of beginner yoga sites online to get you started. It’ll feel so great to stretch out those muscles.
Letter from Betty for January 2018
Hello Friends,
The end-of-year lists are in! Many outlets put together “best of” lists to offer up suggested reading. This month we are featuring some of those books in the Young Adult category in our article: "Best Young Adult Books of 2017."
Sometimes the best thing to do when the winter winds are whipping and the world is iced over is to settle down in front of a roaring fire and dream up big plans for the warmer months. In this month's bonus article we've got you covered. Find inspiration in "Here I Am, Stuck In the Winter With You." Enjoy!
As always, please remember that whatever your educational needs, Foundation for Learning is ready to assist you with caring, one-on-one, individualized tutoring, ISEE/SSAT test prep, and educational evaluations.
Don't hesitate to give us a call at 973-425-1774 or send an email to betty.foundationforlearning@gmail.com for a free consultation.
Best regards,
Betty
January 2018 Test Schedule
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Best Young Adult Books of 2017
Below find some of the best books for young adults published in 2017. You’ll note familiar names and some much anticipated returns. With a long winter on our doorstep, these are books that you might want to gather up to get you and your teen through the season’s inevitable cabin fever.
The Book of Dust: La Belle Sauvage by Philip Pullman
Philip Pullman returns to the parallel world of his groundbreaking novel The Golden Compass to expand on the story of Lyra, "one of fantasy's most indelible characters." (The New York Times Magazine)
Malcolm Polstead is the kind of boy who noticed everything, but he himself was not noticed. And so perhaps it was inevitable that he would become a spy….
Malcolm's parents run an inn called Trout, on the banks of the river Thames, and all of Oxford passes through its doors. Malcolm and his daemon, Asta, routinely overhear news and gossip, and the occasional scandal, but during a winter of unceasing rain, Malcolm catches wind of something new: intrigue.
He finds a secret message inquiring about a dangerous substance called Dust—and the spy it was intended for finds him.
When she asks Malcolm to keep his eyes open, he sees suspicious characters everywhere: the explorer Lord Asriel, clearly on the run; enforcement agents from the Magisterium; a gyptian named Coram with warnings just for Malcolm; and a beautiful woman with an evil monkey for a daemon. All are asking about the same thing: a girl—just a baby—named Lyra.
Lyra is the kind of person who draws people in like magnets. Malcolm will brave any danger and make shocking sacrifices to bring her safely through the storm.
The Backstagers by James Tynion
When Jory transfers to an all-boys' private high school, he’s taken in by the only ones who don’t treat him like a new kid, the lowly stage crew known as the Backstagers. Not only does he gain great, lifetime friends, he is also introduced to an entire magical world that lives beyond the curtain. With the unpredictable twists and turns of the underground world, the Backstagers venture into the unknown, determined to put together the best play their high school has ever seen.
Akata Warrior by Nnedi Okorafor
A year ago, Sunny Nwazue, an American-born girl Nigerian girl, was inducted into the secret Leopard Society. As she began to develop her magical powers, Sunny learned that she had been chosen to lead a dangerous mission to avert an apocalypse, brought about by the terrifying masquerade, Ekwensu. Now, stronger, feistier, and a bit older, Sunny is studying with her mentor Sugar Cream and struggling to unlock the secrets in her strange Nsibidi book.
Eventually, Sunny knows she must confront her destiny. With the support of her Leopard Society friends, Orlu, Chichi, and Sasha, and of her spirit face, Anyanwu, she will travel through worlds both visible and invisible to the mysteries town of Osisi, where she will fight a climactic battle to save humanity.
Far From the Tree by Robin Benway
Being the middle child has its ups and downs. But for Grace, an only child who was adopted at birth, discovering that she is a middle child is a different ride altogether. After putting her own baby up for adoption, she goes looking for her biological family including-
Maya, her loudmouthed younger biological sister, who has a lot to say about their newfound family ties. Having grown up the snarky brunette in a house full of chipper redheads, she’s quick to search for traces of herself among these not-quite-strangers. And when her adopted family’s long-buried problems begin to explode to the surface, Maya can’t help but wonder where exactly it is that she belongs.
Joaquin, their stoic older biological brother, who has no interest in bonding over their shared biological mother. After seventeen years in the foster care system, he’s learned that there are no heroes, and secrets and fears are best kept close to the vest, where they can’t hurt anyone but him.
A Face Like Glass by Frances Hardinge
In the underground city of Caverna, the world’s most skilled craftsmen toil in the darkness to create delicacies beyond compare—wines that remove memories, cheeses that make you hallucinate, and perfumes that convince you to trust the wearer, even as they slit your throat. On the surface, the people of Caverna seem ordinary, except for one thing: their faces are as blank as untouched snow. Expressions must be learned, and only the famous Facesmiths can teach a person to express (or fake) joy, despair, or fear—at a steep price. Into this dark and distrustful world comes Neverfell, a girl with no memory of her past and a face so terrifying to those around her that she must wear a mask at all times. Neverfell's expressions are as varied and dynamic as those of the most skilled Facesmiths, except hers are entirely genuine. And that makes her very dangerous indeed.
Turtles All the Way Down by John Green
Sixteen-year-old Aza never intended to pursue the mystery of fugitive billionaire Russell Pickett, but there’s a hundred-thousand-dollar reward at stake and her Best and Most Fearless Friend, Daisy, is eager to investigate. Together, they navigate the short distance and broad divides that separate them from Russell Pickett’s son, Davis.
Aza is trying. She is trying to be a good daughter, a good friend, a good student, and maybe even a good detective, while also living within the ever-tightening spiral of her own thoughts.
The Pearl Thief by Elizabeth Wein
When fifteen-year-old Julia Beaufort-Stuart wakes up in the hospital, she knows the lazy summer break she'd imagined won't be exactly what she anticipated. And once she returns to her grandfather's estate, a bit banged up but alive, she begins to realize that her injury might not have been an accident. One of her family's employees is missing, and coincidentally he disappeared on the very same day she landed in the hospital.
Desperate to figure out what happened, she befriends Euan McEwen, the Scottish Traveller boy who found her when she was injured, and his standoffish sister, Ellen. As Julie grows closer to this family, she witnesses firsthand some of the prejudices they've grown used to-a stark contrast to her own upbringing-and finds herself exploring thrilling new experiences that have nothing to do with a missing-person investigation.
Her memory of that day returns to her in pieces, and when a body is discovered, her new friends are caught in the crosshairs of long-held biases about Travelers. Julie must get to the bottom of the mystery in order to keep them from being framed for the crime.
Here I Am, Stuck In the Winter With You
Wondering what to do when you're stuck inside this winter? Here are 10 great ideas to get you unstuck.
Plan your Summer Vacation
This is the perfect time to daydream, surf the net, start making those plans!
Make Candy
There are many easy recipes online and videos to guide you, if needed. Pick an afternoon and create sweet treats along with sweet memories.
PJ Day
Put on your most comfy pjs, gather your cozy blankets, pick up that book you’ve been wanting to get to, or the stack of magazines just waiting for your free time. Do some serious lounging for a day!
Go all out and make an awesome breakfast
French toast, cocoa, omelets, pancakes, treat yourself to a special meal to start your day.
Build a Fort
Gather together a few chairs, pillows, plenty of blankets or quilts and transform your living room into a fun fort!
Catch up with out-of-town friends and family
Skype, Facetime and other connection apps make it easy to stay in touch. Set aside some time and reconnect!
Redecorate
Rearrange the furniture, hang your pictures and posters in different places, make new curtains. It’s fun and will give you a fresh new space without having to spend a lot of money.
Build an Indoor Obstacle Course
Use pillows, furniture, toys and burn off some of that pent-up energy.
Have a Dance Party
Enjoy those albums and playlists you’ve collected. Turn it up loud and dance away!
Get Creative and Make Something
Paper crafts, jewelry making, sewing and painting instructions can be found online to suit most any whim. You can also check out Joann’s, Michael’s, Hobby Lobby, or other craft stores for great ideas.
Letter from Betty for December 2017
Hello Friends,
Ready or not, December and the holiday season is upon us. I hope these next few weeks are packed with happy and festive times for you, your family and friends!
For your eager young learners, we have a short but sweet list of gift ideas in our feature article this month, "8 Smart Gift Ideas for the Holidays." These are gifts for children, but you might be tempted by some of them yourself!
If you are looking for a homemade gift idea, you want to decorate the outside of your home as nicely as the inside, or perhaps you want to be kind to your local neighborhood woodland creatures, you'll enjoy our bonus article this month: "You Can Do It: Bird Seed Tree Ornament." Enjoy!
In case you missed our news over the summer, we've completed the move of Foundation For Learning to our new location, but don't worry, we haven't gone far! We are now located at 930 Mt. Kemble Avenue, just three buildings south of our previous location.
The full address:
Foundation for Learning
930 Mt. Kemble Ave
Morristown, NJ 07960
As always, please remember that whatever your educational needs, Foundation for Learning is ready to assist you with caring, one-on-one, individualized tutoring, ISEE/SSAT test prep, and educational evaluations.
Don't hesitate to give us a call at 973-425-1774 or send an email to betty.foundationforlearning@gmail.com for a free consultation.
Best regards,
Betty
December 2017 Test Schedule
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8 Smart Gift Ideas for the Holidays!
Melissa & Doug USA Map Floor Puzzle (amazon.com) $13
Younger children will enjoy putting together this oversized jigsaw puzzle and won’t even realize that they’re getting a jump-start on learning about the 50 states. The pieces are sturdy and extra-thick, just right for little hands to hold.
Jumbo Bananagrams Game (amazon.com) $15
Water resistant tiles pack neatly into a banana-shaped tote so you can take this popular crossword puzzle game with you to the park, on trips, or other adventures. Your children will have so much fun with this game that they won’t even realize they’re learning to spell!
Educational Insights – GeoSafari My First Microscope (amazon.com) $18
Kid-friendly, with features such as extra-large eye pieces and easy-to-use, colorful design, your little scientist will enjoy getting a closer look at leaves, flowers, shells, rocks and more with this cute magnifier.
Stop-Motion Animation Kit (uncommongoods.com) $60
This set is perfect for introducing stop-motion photography to your creative child. It includes pieces needed to build crazy fun characters, a camera, and the software needed to produce animated films. So great!
Magformers Hi-Tech Walking Robot – 45 piece set (amazon.com) $69
This is not your average set of blocks! These magnetic kits are great for the development of spatial understanding. Young builders can create eight different colorful characters that come to life via an engine block and walking accessories. What a fun way to learn engineering!
Technology Will Save Us Mover Kit (barnesandnoble.com) $75
What a fun way to learn coding! This brilliant wristwear reacts to different movements with brilliant multicolored lights. This watch can be coded in infinite ways and easily fits onto a wrist via a fun slap band.
LeapFrog Epic Tablet (amazon.com) $83
With a shatter-proof screen for young fingers, this tablet has challenging apps that increase in skill level as your child’s learning level increases. Your child will love the different games and activities on this LeapFrog Android based tablet.
Anki Cozmo Robot (amazon.com) $153
This adorable little robot is kid-friendly, capable of recognizing it’s owner, and ready to play games. Powered by artificial intelligence, this critter is able to express feelings and has tons of personality. Wow!
You Can Do It: Bird Seed Tree Ornament
Cute birdseed ornaments add color to bare winter trees and are a wonderful treat for hungry feathered friends. So fun to make and a great gift for bird lovers as well!
Materials Needed:
measuring cups
3/4 cup all-purpose white flour
1/2 cup water
3 tablespoons corn syrup
1 envelope unflavored gelatin
4 cups birdseed
bowl
whisk/spoon
cookie cutters
parchment or wax paper
nonstick cooking spray
cookie sheet or cutting board
2 plastic or paper drinking straws
twine
scissors
Mix Ingredients
Mix first four ingredients with a spoon or whisk in a large bowl. The batter will be stiff. Knead birdseed into batter. Tip: This is the ooey-gooey part of the project that kids love getting their hands in.
Put Birdseed in Molds
Place a piece of parchment or wax paper on a cookie sheet or cutting board. Arrange cookie cutters on wax or parchment paper. Spray paper and cutters/molds with non-stick cooking spray. Scoop birdseed mixture into cookie cutters and press in until tightly packed. Smooth on top. Cut straw into 2" pieces. Insert a straw in each ornament to make a hole to later thread a piece of twine through. Make sure the straw is pushed all the way through and has enough birdseed around it to hold when hung.
String Ornaments
Allow birdseed ornaments to dry uncovered, at room temperature until hardened (several hours or overnight.) Gently push out of molds/cookie cutters and remove straws. Cut a piece of twine approximately 8" in length and thread through hole. Hang ornaments outside on tree branches for birds to enjoy. Tip: Wrap in cellophane and tie with a pretty ribbon and handmade tag to turn this craft into a gift.
Letter from Betty for November 2017
Hello Friends,
The Middle School years are challenging. But they can also be a highly rewarding time for parents and children. If your child has recently entered middle school, we have a helpful article this month, with excellent suggestions to guide you through these especially formative years: "So, You Have A Middle School Student."
This is the time of year when falling, fluttering leaves are in the air, and many festive holidays will soon be here. We have a great craft project to inspire you—a do-it-yourself gift idea—in our bonus article: "You Can Do It: Fall Leaf Luminaries." Enjoy!
In case you missed our news over the summer, we've completed the move of Foundation For Learning to our new location, but don't worry, we haven't gone far! We are now located at 930 Mt. Kemble Avenue, just three buildings south of our previous location.
The full address:
Foundation for Learning
930 Mt. Kemble Ave
Morristown, NJ 07960
As always, please remember that whatever your educational needs, Foundation for Learning is ready to assist you with caring, one-on-one, individualized tutoring, ISEE/SSAT test prep, and educational evaluations.
Don't hesitate to give us a call at 973-425-1774 or send an email to betty.foundationforlearning@gmail.com for a free consultation.
Best regards,
Betty
November 2017 Test Schedule
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So, You Have A Middle School Student - Tips for making it through the Middle School Years successfully
So, You Have a Middle-Schooler!
Last month’s newsletter covered thoughts and advice for parents of high-schoolers; this month we are focusing on middle-schoolers. The middle school years are a time full of great change and often, no small amount of dread. It’s also a time when parents need to muster up all the peace, love, and understanding that they’re able. Most middle-schoolers likely decide that their parents don’t know anything, they are over-protective, and that they just aren’t cool. Pre-teens are becoming more independent and the transition from elementary school may well cause a good deal of unease as they navigate their new social setting. By the end of their first year, they think they have everything figured out, but over the following two years it can be a bit of a wild ride for students, parents and teachers. Mood swings run rampant, popularity becomes an over-riding concern, and body image, and friends become important in their developing minds. How can parents help and guide them?
Maintain a good homework routine by having a set time and place for your child to complete homework each night. When he finishes his homework ask to see it, not to review or correct it, but to make sure it’s completed. If he asks for help with an assignment, give assistance and help him work out a particular problem, but leave the overall checking and corrections to the teacher. And, importantly, make sure his phone and other technology are some place other than where he is working. These devices are major distractions, so have them put away during this set homework time.
Stay in touch with teachers and if your school has an on-line parent portal/student management system, sign into it on a regular basis. Parent portals typically allow parents to keep up with assignments, grades, attendance and over-all progress, as well as providing them with an easy way to stay in touch with teachers. It’s much better to stay on top of school work as your child moves through the year rather than getting to the end of a grading period only to find that there were mounting problems and concerns. It’s best to tackle issues week by week as they come up.
Introduce yourself to the school counselor and, if needed, let her be a resource for you. The counselor can be a great source of information and she can act as an intermediary between you and the school staff should there be a need. She can also be a good sounding board if you are having frustrations with your child. She has a different credibility than a parent, so let her be a part of your child’s success team.
Here’s a hard one for many parents: don’t rescue your child from natural consequences. You’ve been nurturing and protecting your child for many years, so it’s going to be hard to step back and let him go through potentially hard times, but if you cushion him from his accountability when he has done something wrong, when will he learn to be responsible? As a parent, you’ve already set up expectations, rules, and boundaries. Your middle-schooler will no doubt test these limits, because it's a natural part of growing up. But, if he flunks a test, misses an assignment, or gets into trouble with other, he has to learn from the experience.
Be aware of technology. The technology and connectivity mobile devices provide is wonderful, but they can also be a problem. Middle schoolers love the social aspect that they maintain with friends while on their phones, tablets and laptops, but they can also get caught up in situations that they shouldn’t be in.Parents need to monitor websites visited, be aware of who their child is communicating with on social sites, and be on the look-out for on-line bullying. Your child needs to learn how to use these devices appropriately and he needs to stay safe.
Help your middle-schooler broaden his social circle by finding opportunities to make new friends outside of school. Bullying, popularity struggles and ever-changing bff’s, make it too easy for the social side of the school experience to become a nightmare. By finding groups outside of school that focus on your child’s interests you are giving him the opportunity to get to know others who have the same interests. Consider enrolling your child in a dance class, boy scouts or girl scouts, or a music group outside the school setting. You’ll be encouraging your child to explore and follow his passion and giving him a chance to grow. Also, your he will have the benefit of having friends outside of school.
Good luck with these middle school years! Stay involved, stay alert, have patience, ask for help and accept the support that is there for you. And remember, even though middle-schoolers tend to regard their parents as un-cool, over-protective worrywarts, one day, when they are grown and have children of their own, you’ll be the smartest parent ever. Hang in there!
You Can Do It: Fall Leaf Luminaries
Fall Leaf Luminaries will make a great decoration for your mantel and holiday tables
Here’s what you need:
Beautiful fall leaves that you can collect on a long walk. A variety of shapes and colors would be ideal.
Bell type canning jars or other jars from your recycle bin
Mod Podge - available in craft stores
Foam Brush
White tissue paper
Scissors
Tea lights or votive candles
Steps:
After selecting leaves from your yard, arrange them in the design style you would like to place them on your jar.
Apply Mod Podge to your jar by sticking your hand inside the jar to hold it up and using the foam brush to apply the adhesive. Keep the Mod Podge below the threads of the jar. Note: Mod Podge will go on white and dries clear.
Tear or cut your tissue paper into strips and apply them, one by one, onto the jar. For a clean finish, cut a circle or square of tissue paper and apply it to the bottom of your jar, then wrap strips around the bottom edge for complete coverage.
Reapply Mod Podge to the bottom and sides of the jar, covering all of the tissue paper. This will protect the paper.
Apply Mod Podge to the underside of the leaves and carefully arrange them onto the jar, as you designed them in step 1. Try not to overlap them too much, but a little bit is just fine. Smooth out any air bubbles by gently rubbing the leaves from the center out to the edges.
Carefully apply Mod Podge on top of the leaves, making sure that you have complete coverage. Place your jar upside down and allow your creation to dry.
Your beautiful decoration and centerpiece is completed! Once you put your tea lights or votives inside the jar and you see them lit up you’ll really appreciate the lovely, custom-made contribution you’ve created for your holiday gathering.
Letter from Betty for October 2017
Hello Friends,
Every year and age of childhood — right through to the teenage years — is exciting and rewarding for parents. And each grade level brings its own challenges and opportunities for young learners. If your child has just entered the high school years, we have a great article just for you, chock-full of great advice and tips for success over the course of these next four important years: "So, You Have A High School Student."
On the lighter side (or maybe the darker, spookier side?) it's October, and Halloween will be here before you know it. What better time than now to think about creating a unique Jack-o-Lantern?! You'll find a splashing good idea in our bonus article: "You Can Do It: Drippy Melty Jack-o-Lantern." Enjoy!
In case you missed our news over the summer, we've completed the move of Foundation For Learning to our new location, but don't worry, we haven't gone far! We are now located at 930 Mt. Kemble Avenue, just three buildings south of our previous location.
The full address:
Foundation for Learning
930 Mt. Kemble Ave
Morristown, NJ 07960
As always, please remember that whatever your educational needs, Foundation for Learning is ready to assist you with caring, one-on-one, individualized tutoring, ISEE/SSAT test prep, and educational evaluations.
Don't hesitate to give us a call at 973-425-1774 or send an email to betty.foundationforlearning@gmail.com for a free consultation.
Best regards,
Betty
October 2017 Test Schedule
Mark your calendar for the latest test dates.
So, You Have A High School Student: Tips for making it through the next four years successfully
So, you have a high school student. These years are going to fly by and even though your job as parent is different when you have a teen, you still play an important role in your child's life. Your teen will become more independent with each passing year. At this point he's beginning to really understand that his course selections, his grades, and extracurricular activities all count. He has to pay attention to graduation requirements and building a transcript. Your job as a parent is to guide him, keep him on-course, to stay involved. What does that mean?
- Be involved. Attend parent-teacher conferences, back-to-school events, and other parent meetings. Learn as much as you can about your teens' curriculum, homework assignments and classroom expectations. Stay on top of their performance in each class. Get in touch with teachers and school counselors if you have questions or concerns. Join the school’s PTA/PTO, attend events, volunteer. You want to be connected in order to really find out what is going on rather than relying on your children to tell you. You’ll learn an awful lot by spending time with school staff and other parents as well.
- Work to understand course selection and take the advice of the experts. It’s important to make sure your teen is on track to complete state graduation requirements as well as signing up for classes that are appropriate for his ability level. Pay attention to teacher recommendations, be realistic and supportive. Your teen needs to be stretched and challenged, but overwhelming him with coursework that isn’t a good fit isn’t going to end well. On the flip side, you don’t want your child to be sitting in a class that isn’t challenging enough. The school staff will be able to advise and guide your teen so listen to what they have to say.
- Maintain a healthy balance. Between academics, athletics, the after-school job, social life, and other activities, our teen have a lot on their plate. You want him to be successful, to be connected, to have activities and have fun, but there has to be a good balance. Help him to understand that school is his first priority and that class choices and grades will play a big part in determining what options he will have post-graduation. Make sure that there is a quiet place to complete schoolwork at home and make sure to keep the use of smart phones and other technology in check during study time. Additionally, seriously consider the time commitment required for outside-of-school activities and adjust schedules and patterns as needed in order to keep a healthy balance. Paying attention now will be a lot easier than dealing with problems when your teen finds himself in crisis mode.
- Set reasonable expectations regarding curfews and going out on school nights. Know who your child’s friends are, who they are hanging out with and where they are spending their time. You’re not being over-protective, you are being a parent.
- Seek information about post-secondary planning and guidance. You want your teen to be successful, to find a career that he loves, and to be financially independent one day. It’s important to be supportive of his dreams. It’s also important to be realistic. It’s a big world out there with countless options to pursue. Help your teen with that information search and decision making. Meet with the school guidance counselor and gather enough information to lay out a road map that will include planning coursework, setting goals, staying motivated, ensuring that requirements are met, and include steps to evaluate and change things up as needed.
- Encourage your teen to seek out job shadowing opportunities so he can spend a day (or more) with someone who is already working in their desired field. This will allow him to see what a particular job is like on a day-to-day basis, what the working conditions are like, what they like or dislike, and finally about what it takes to be successful from an expert in that field. The experience will either be a great motivator or a reality check, but it’ll be a great opportunity to explore. Attend the school’s college planning information events and don’t necessarily wait until junior or senior year to start gathering this knowledge. Give yourself plenty of time to learn, ask questions and explore. Guidance counselors can tell you about entrance requirements, testing requirements, financial expectations and assistance and can help guide you and your teen through that process.
- Get help now if you find that your teen is struggling academically, socially, emotionally, or with substance abuse. High-schoolers have more independence than they’ve had before, but with that comes added temptations. Keep track of academic progress, notice changes in behavior, be observant, stay connected and talk with your teen every day. Navigating the high school years is difficult but there are a lot of professionals in your area that can step in and help when it’s needed, including school counselors, private counselors and professional tutors. A professional can be a good sounding board, offer suggestions and direction, and can think about the situation objectively and unemotionally during a trying time.
I hope that these tips and this information will help you stay connected with your teen and his school, and will lead to a successful high school experience.
You Can Do It: Drippy Melty Jack-o-Lantern
Looking for a new take on Halloween Jack-o-Lanterns this year? Here's an idea for you...make a drippy, melted masterpiece!
You'll want to start out with a white pumpkin. If you can't find one, then just cover an orange pumpkin with white paint. Now, pick out 16 or so colorful crayons and attach them in a spiral around the stem of the pumpkin using tacky glue. When the glue is dry, get out your hair dryer and melt those crayons until they become colorful, drippy ribbons. Masterpiece!